Having your “cake” & eating it too.

This song ‘alpha beta parking lot’ has been stuck in my head all day and it usually gets stuck in my head whenever I go grocery shopping at our local grocery store – because the sunset from the parking is so fabulous.

Stay tuned : I’ll insert a photo in the future – the next time I go grocery shopping…

‘Prolonging the Magic’ by Cake, one of my most favorite albums of all-time.

But many years ago – I was high as fuck silently standing in the center of thousands of fans chanting “satan is my motor” when something changed.

Think about everything. Why do you like a song. Why do you like a person. Why do you think the way you do. It all comes down to ‘Why’.

Right behind you

Last week I went back home to New Mexico, deathly sick I maintained reality on DayQuil and espresso and all the red Chile I could force myself to eat. Before my flight home I was shaking, my ears were ringing, I was sure I was not going to make it- but, after a beer and 3 cocktails I got on the airplane… I did make it home, but my advice to everyone – remember Death is just always “right behind you“.

P.S. Thank you GOD, for making people just show up out of no where and letting me see everyone I love.

If you need to get away

Eat. Sleep. Swim. Drink. Repeat.

We went on a family Christmas vacation to Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. And instead of rehashing the story over and over again when everybody is asking about my tan- this is where we stayed and my suggestion for anybody wanting to go to the “DR”:



Ask for Georgina at Volalto she was a RAD hostess & definitely hire the chef from Hacienda A13; José for all your meals. I can’t wait to go back.

My only regret was not going deep sea fishing…